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Gerald L. Ray 'Jerry', age 72 of Highland, Indiana passed away December 10, 2025 at the University of Chicago Medical Hospital with family and staff by his side.
He is survived by his wife Connie of 50 years. They met while working together in their early twenties. A friendship that grew into a lifetime of memories.
Jerry is also survived by his sister-in-law, Gladys Stathos of Niles, Michigan; sister-in-law, Noel Ray of Henderson, NV; cousin, Marian (Mark) Chapman of Boerne, Texas along with many numerous cousins.
Preceded in death by his father, James 'Jim' Ray; mother, Genevieve Ray; brother, Richard 'Rick' Ray; father-in-law, John Rompola and mother-in-law, Jeanette Rompola.
Jerry retired from The Art Institute of Chicago as the Director of Mail Order and Direct Response where he enjoyed many years of the development and organizational follow up of the catalog.
Jerry loved reading his books and getting involved in a good story. His kind and gentle heart was there for all who needed him. His deep, hearty laugh was contagious. He enjoyed traveling and would always find a special spot to sit and enjoy life. His special love for his Old English Sheepdogs was a special bond. Gracie’s slobbery kisses made his day. We love you Jer and miss you deeply.
Until we meet again in heaven, you will always be in our hearts.
The family would like to thank the staff at The University of Chicago Medical Hospital for all the kindness and care they had extended to Jerry while he was under their care.
A Memorial Gathering will be held on Saturday, April 25, 2026 beginning at 2:00pm followed by a Memorial Service at 3:30pm with Lay Minister Dan Zilai and Pastor Rebecca Sundquist officiating at Hillside Funeral Home and Cremation Center, 8941 Kleinman Road Highland, IN.
For further information, please contact Hillside Funeral Home, Konnie Kuiper - Michael Kuiper-Vass by calling 219-838-0800 or visiting us at www.hillsidefhcares.com
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